Sunday, 13 May 2012

Things I have learned

I will be adding to this list as and when things occur to me.  But, having reflected on this most recent - and hurtful - experience, I want to take away something from it at least for the future.

- Never go out with a guy who has only just split up with someone.  You will, except in rare cases, be their rebound relationship.  If the relationship ended very recently, you are likely to hear them talk about their ex - their likes and dislikes will pop up in conversation.  I recall W mentioning his ex on several occasions now.  She liked this celebrity, she liked cooking, she liked X Factor (when I saw he'd got some recordings on his tv).  Yeah, ok, get over her. 

 - Never go out with a guy who avoids life by taking drugs.  He won't have time for you, unless you are into taking drugs too.  You might be able to get him off them but chances are you won't.  If you want to try, good luck with that.  Don't believe him if he says that he doesn't take all that much. He means, not as much as his cokehead sister who takes a gram a day. 


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