So I realised today that he is an avoider. The guy that I thought was so cool and sorted and together isn't as together and sorted and cool as I thought he was.
He:
- has avoided telling his ex-girlfriend that they are no longer together. On Facebook, she still has that she is in a relationship with him. She is still phoning him as much now as she ever did.
- avoided telling me that our relationship was over by ignoring me, then sending me a stupid text that started off with 'Hiya (Hiya???), no I'm not seeing anyone else but I think that this may be unworkable because of schedules etc'. Which was the worst excuse ever.
- avoided being on his own by joining a dating website a week or two after finishing a long term relationship. He needed to think about what he wanted not jump straight back into a relationship with someone to try to fill the gap left by his ex.
- avoids facing up to life by snorting cocaine at weekends - and perhaps more often. So much for being into fairtrade...the more I read about cocaine production and smuggling, the more I think that he is a huge hypocrite for fuelling the trade by taking coke and possibly dealing it.
Can he be on coke for ever and avoid thinking about what it is that he really wants? Is he going to avoid thinking about the harm he's doing to himself with his chronic coke addiction. That's not good enough for me.
I think someone who needs that much coke to get on with life must be dead inside.
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